Want to know what to do to win back love? Are you willing to do just about anything to be reunited with the person you dumped and now realize that you never should have done it? That is a tough spot to be in. It will require some major humility and more than a little groveling on your part. I mean, you hurt your ex and you broke up with them so if you want to get them back you’ll probably have to stroke their ego a little bit and that usually means groveling. It’s not that bad though, as long as the two of you are back together and happy again.
Just don’t give up. No matter how much time has passed or what the two of you have been through, don’t give up. If you are patient and are willing to give it time, it can work out no matter how much time has passed.
I have a friend who met a woman several years ago. The two of them started off as friends but things got really intense very quickly. To say they fell in love with each other would be an understatement. It was like they were soul mates ( I know that term is overused, but in this case it was true). Anyway, he was getting ready to propose when she suddenly stopped taking his calls! She didn’t tell him what was going on or offer any explanation. He was absolutely devastated. He really loved her and thought she was the one.
Soon after that, she got married to someone else. It took him a long time but he did move on and love again, though he still cared about her. After almost ten years she called him out of the blue! She finally explained what had happened. She loved him so much that it scared her so she pulled back. She told him that she loved her husband, but not nearly to the degree that she loved him, she still loved him.
Of course, there was a part of him that was thrilled, that’s pretty much what he always wanted to hear, but needless to say, he was also very angry and didn’t want to talk to her or let her in again. It took him a long time to work through his feelings of hurt and betrayal, but in the end, he realized that she really was the one and he wanted her in his life. He found a way to forgive her for the hurt she had caused him.
Her husband passed away and she and my friend are now married. It took them over a decade to get together but they’ve been together for years and have been extremely happy.
The moral of the story is this, no matter what has happened or how much time has passed it’s never too late to win back love as long as you’re willing to keep an open mind, forgive past hurts, and try again.